(RIP, Richard Attenborough)
(and here's to CS Lewis newphew, who wrote a script worthy of his uncle...)
"Why love, if losing hurts so much? I have no answers anymore: only the life I have lived. Twice in that life I've been given the choice: as a boy and as a man. The boy chose safety, the man chooses suffering. The pain now is part of the happiness then. That's the deal."